The Long Lost Booth

After 2 months, we've decided to give up on the consignment booth.

It's just not that exciting.

The first week or so was exciting. I moved stuff around, bought stuff, sold stuff. I think I was out there at least 3 times a week.

I say "out there" because it takes us about 15-30 minutes to get from our house to Trader Bucks, which I think is the main reason we've lost interest.

Other reasons:

1. Katie's stuff didn't sell well. I really thought it would, but nothing sold.
2. To much overhead. $120 rent, gas to the booth, gas to auction's, money you have sitting in inventory.
2.5 This then turns thrifting and going to auctions something I HAD to do, which takes some of the fun out of it. Selling on-line is a much better.
3. I don't really have the time.
3.5 I tricked myself. I started this while I had sometime off work. When work started back up, I just didn't have it in me to run out there enough and to go to enough auctions.

I think if there was one closer to us I would of stuck with it. I still have my name on the waiting list at Deja' Vu. I don't know what I'll do if they call with an opening. Not that they're any closer.

Anyway, we gave it a shot.

Okay, February it is!

So, I made resolutions December 1st for the coming New Year.

But, I'm sticking to my old ways and going with starting resolutions in February. I do like starting in December though, it allows you to decide if you want to really do them or not.

Off the original list: Getting an auctioneers license.

This is still something I want to do, but it's not something I will be able to do while I work a 9-5. After some research, it would take 80 hours of class and nearly $1,200 to get a license. These are deal breakers this year.

That's the only one that is being completely taken off the list.

Obviously I'm blogging so that one is going well and I plan on going above and beyond. I purchased a domain and soon this blog will be there. I also plan on selling things on a few sites, with those accounts all collected on the domain. I'm also starting a Tumblr account to post other stuff.
Why? I've bought into the idea of branding yourself. So, I'm adding onto the blog resolution, I'm going to build my brand. Electric Elm is that brand.

Where did that name come from, you ask? I just made it up one day.
Why brand yourself with a made up name, you ask? I'm just doing it, okay.

My number one goal is losing 40 pounds. I don't consider myself unhealthy, but 6 foot, 240 is considered obese. This always bothers me. And in my younger days I was this height and 140 pounds, so somethings got to give.
But losing weight is on everyone's list? I eat very healthy. I really do. The biggest issue is my love for Budweiser (let's just say that I'm not the type of person to have 2 or 3 a week) and my lack of exercise.

So, I'm skipping the amount of weight I want to lose and changing this goal into I'm going to ride my bike a lot this year. Problem is that I don't currently have a working bicycle. I have 3 in the garage, only one is ridable, but not a long range bike, the other 2 are in pieces. So, get a bike together is on the to-do list.

You'd probably think that cutting back on drinking would be a goal. It's not, but if I increase the amount of time and effort on bike riding, the amount of time drinking should naturally go down.

Opening a consignment store is going to be a difficult one. Truthfully, I have other business ideas that I'm hiding behind the term "consignment store". But, you will be able to come into this store and buy things that aren't new, and it may be other people's stuff, so it is a consignment store in a way.
I would also have to quit my job to do this and we are a one income family. I don't really think it is something that could happen this year, but if the all the right pieces fall into the right place it could.
I really need to sit down and put together a business plan for this. So, I'll put that on my to-do list.

Number 5 was easy to write and I didn't really think about it while I wrote it, one of those you think you can mark off this list as it's being written.

"Keep my family healthy and happy"

I thought about it more after our family meeting and realized how hard my wife works at her goals. After stepping back and looking at it, she has accomplished a lot in the last year.

January 2009, she was 9 months pregnant, had just quit her job and tinkering with making her own line of natural body care products. We kicked around some names, decided she should start blogging and off she went. A year later she's really built a good small business.

(Not to mention that she's also started another project recently.
Oh, and we shouldn't forget that she gave birth naturally to our lovely Archer in a baby pool in our living room.
Oh, we should also not forget that she gave up a job as a Braille Transcriber (where she made the same amount of money as me) to stay home and raise our two son's because she felt it was the right thing to do.)

Enough bragging...

So I'm switching this goal to helping Katie with her businesses. Keeping my family happy and healthy really shouldn't be a resolution for the year, it's just what you do as a father and husband. The bulk of this will require me to take Jackson and Archer out of the house so she can get work done. The rest will be doing whatever I can.

I also realized how hard it would be for both of us to be working on starting our own businesses at the same time. Really, it would just make it more difficult on all of us. The smart thing to do is to both work on making one successful, which would increase the likelihood of the other to be successful later on, or just sticking with the one that's already successful. While I'd love to own my own business, I'd love it more if Katie was making enough money that I didn't have to do anything!


So here's the final list (in order of importance)

1. Ride my bike a lot more.
2. Help Katie with her business.
3. Build my brand.
4. Open a consignment store.


I've been well trained in goal making, and you go-getter nerds out there are probably pointing out the lack of ability to measure these goals. In fact, I've removed measurement's from the original group. That's how I'm doing things.

In November, I was going through my, "I should be doing my own thing and need to start working on it now" feelings. I'm sure you all get them. Where at any moment, you feel you may get up and walk out on your day job. I've taken January to look at things with a calmer mind. When I look at the above list, they don't look like resolution or goals really, but more as things that will make my life less complicated and more fulfilling.

Really, the top 2 are talking about riding a bike a lot and taking the kids out of the house when I get home from work a couple days a week.


I think this is the kind of year I need.


In March, Katie and I will have been married for 5 years. Almost every day of those five years, I've thought about increasing job satisfaction/starting my own business and providing the best I could for my family/trying to make more money. It's actually been pretty busy 5 years.

A brief run down of what we've been up to since March 5th, 2005.

- We've lived in 4 different places, which included buying 2 houses, selling one.
- We produced 2 children.
- We've had 3 cats (currently 2)
- We've had 4 dogs (1 had puppies, but won't count them)(Currently have one dog)
- Katie has held 3 jobs (currently 0)
- I've held 4 jobs, one at a time
- We've had 5 different cars (currently have 1)
- Been on 6 trips of 5 days or more.

And that's just the big stuff I remember.

I guess what I'm trying to get at here is, it's been a crazy 5 years. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy craziness but, I really just want to play with my kids, help my wife, and ride my bike this year. When there's time, I'll work on the brand stuff and fine tune my business ideas, even if they don't amount to anything.

Family Meeting

The other night I called a family meeting.

Topic: What do you want to do this year?

This is the second family meeting that has ever been called. The first was mid-last year. I think I called that one when I realized we were operating at a loss and things had to change. Katie laughs because that meeting consisted of me drinking and sitting at the computer going over the books while she and Jackson sat near by. And me telling them they couldn't leave because we were in a meeting.

This one went better.

Jackson had the biggest goal: To do karate in China.
(Jackson Van Damme, you say?)
It's important to let your children dream, well at least don't crush their dreams to quickly.

During the meeting we said we would look into him starting some karate classes, which we will. Later, during story time, I learned he thought you could only do karate in China.
(something he learned from watching Mulan?)
I explained that China is a country that you had to get in an airplane and fly to, and that he could learn karate here in West Lafayette, and that there were karate places by Menards or by our old apartment downtown. Karate in China wasn't going to happen.
He seemed pleased by this. He also said he wanted a real drum set, we'll see, I've always wanted one also.

Katie didn't have any outlandish goals that included travel to developing countries. Her goals were to stick to the path she's on with her business, while trying to get her products into one (1) brick and mortar store.

I think it's entirely possible that she could get them into more stores, but it's hard to gauge the time she'll have to actually 'work' on her business. Plus, if the rate of on-line sales continue to increase the way they've been the last 2 months, she won't need to put them in stores at all.

I had to remind her of the newest idea, which she plans to start working on soon.

She is also helping her mother and me run our Etsy shops, which is no small task.

For someone that says she never has time to do anything, she does a lot of stuff.

Then came my turn.

Not much changed from my post in December, well, that's not entirely true. But that's another post that I will hopefully finish soon.

Archer can't talk so he didn't have much to say about goals. Plus, this will officially be his first full year here, so we let it slide.


I think doing family meetings are a good idea and plan on doing them more often, especially now that Jackson is becoming more independent. We see each other all the time and converse, and are actually well aware of what the other's dreams and goals are, but they usually get lost in the commotion.
These allow a time for us to speak our minds and for everyone to hear.

Also, without taking everyone else's goals into consideration, you may find yourself making goals that aren't really possible or fair to those around you. This is another topic I plan to cover in my next post.

So give it a try if you'd like. If you don't have a spouse and kids, try it with your closest friends or people you aren't comprehensive around. Don't come prepared. We didn't write anything down, or put time frames on anything. Actually, no one knew what the meeting was about until I got them on the couch, so it was rather informal.
But, we all know what we want to do this year.

Well, at least until the next meeting.

End of Break

Break is over, almost.

Have to go back to work tomorrow.

Kind of got 2 of my 3 things done.

The entertainment center is in the house. It was to cold to stain or paint it outside. So, we just left it in it's sanded state. Didn't put shelves in either. So, it's only about 1/3 finished, but it's in the house and serving it's purpose.

Game area was set up, Jackson and I have been playing some Mario World and Donkey Kong on the Super Nintendo. He's still working on the hand/eye coordination, so I didn't hook up the Nintendo 64 yet. I'd say this project is 2/3 finished.

Computer desk, nothing.

Did make it to 2 auctions outside of Lafayette, got the booth looking better. Had a good Christmas and New Years.

So, it was a good break, a good 2009.